I have experienced these type of things b4.
She told me the exact things as in yr thread.
The other guy does the same things as described in yr thread.
And I reacted the same way as described in yr thread too.
I guess, in terms of character, u and me have something in
familar.
she said it not abt him. she say she feels numb abt me n him.
she appreciate what i do for her but she could not reciprocate
anymore. she dunno how.
she wanted to come up with some kind of mutual conclusion but we
didnt really get to any..
From the above, she told me. I paused for 5 seconds. For that 5
seconds, it seems like 5 mins with many thoughts running in my
head. Somehow, this seems to be an expected shock. Somehow, I just
dont want to give up. And eventually somehow, I remember the
initial reasons on y I accepted her - To keep her happy. Because of
tat, I shallowed some air, pick up the courage and told her tat it
is better for us to have time for ourselves. During these time, u
will not need to care abt me and able to do anything that u want
for yrself. I will wait u for a period of 10mths. Of coz, she feels
guilty, I console her and the conversation ends.
Of coz, I m not the give up type person. I tried to have an update
on her everytime without her noeing till one month later, she
called and told me coldly "she thinks is over". Tat is time tat
gives me the most impact but I still honor my words till
then.
Well, all the above, all in the past now. Just want to share with u
as a reference. Every1 has a different path. I wish yr path is a
much better one than mine.
